In the most memorable impactful conversation of my college years, classmate, Tim McGill, listened for ten minutes, and tossed me a book, Escape from Freedom, by Dr. Eric Fromm. After digesting Fromm’s mind-blowing insights about freedom, I knew my destiny--at least for next quarter. I would major in psychology. What did Fromm mean by “escape” from freedom?” This quote captures the essence of his life-altering message:
“Modern man lives under the illusion that he knows 'what he wants,' while he actually wants what he is supposed to want. In order to accept this it is necessary to realize that to know what one really wants is not comparatively easy, as most people think, but one of the most difficult problems any human being has to solve. It is a task we frantically try to avoid by accepting ready-made goals as though they were our own.”